Coachosity: Are are you missing this tool?


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Hi Reader,

Empathy may not be the first thing you think of when it comes to leadership. But it could be the most powerful tool you aren’t using.

Today at a Glance:

  • Curiosity: Show it?
  • Insight: Understand its impact?
  • Action: Apply it?

Get Curious: Showing Empathy?

Understanding Emotions

How are you connecting emotionally with your team?

Empathy goes beyond understanding; it’s about feeling what others feel. Leaders who actively listen and observe non-verbal cues, such as tone and body language, can better grasp the emotions of their team members. Are you tuning in to these emotional signals?

Deepen how you connect with your team by empathizing with their challenges.

Responding with Care

What's your response when a team member expresses difficulty?

Responding with empathy is not about offering solutions. It’s about acknowledging feelings and creating a safe space for open dialogue. Leaders who validate their team members’ emotions create a culture of trust and support.

Build resilience and trust within your team by leading with empathy.

Increasing Awareness

How are you integrating empathy in your leadership style? Consider this:

  • How often do I check in with my team’s emotional state?
  • How approachable am I when my team is struggling?
  • How effectively do I recognize when my team is emotionally drained or stressed?

Increasing your self-awareness about how and when you show empathy will help you improve your ability to be an empathetic leader.

Insight: Empathy Boosts Results

Innovation & Burnout

Empathy boosts innovation and reduces burnout.

A 2020 study by Catalyst found that employees with empathetic leaders were 61% more innovative and far less likely to experience burnout. Empathy creates psychological safety, where individuals feel supported and valued, leading to more creativity and engagement. Teams with empathetic leaders also show greater resilience, as employees are more comfortable sharing concerns and asking for help.

Empathetic leaders build environments where creativity thrives.

Trust & Collaboration

Empathy fosters trust, connection, and collaboration.

Research from the Center for Creative Leadership shows that empathetic leaders build stronger team bonds and boost morale, which lowers turnover rates. When leaders consistently show empathy, team members are more likely to stay engaged and committed to their roles. High-trust teams are better at resolving conflicts and collaborating toward common goals, directly improving team performance and productivity.

Empathetic leaders build cohesive, high-performing teams.

Better Decisions

Empathy shapes decision-making.

Forbes reports that empathy leads to more thoughtful, people-centered decision-making. Leaders who understand their team’s emotional and professional needs can make decisions that balance business goals with the well-being of their people. This approach creates more sustainable outcomes, as it aligns team motivation and needs with organizational objectives.

Empathetic leaders make more balanced decisions.

Action: Practicing Empathy

Intentional Listening

How can you practice being more empathetic?

Start by becoming a better listener. Listen to understand, rather than to respond. Focus on what your team members are saying, both verbally and non-verbally, and ask thoughtful follow-up questions. This will help you connect more deeply with their experiences.

Listening with intention demonstrates a commitment to leading with empathy.

Modeling Empathy

How can you lead by example in showing empathy?

Leaders set the emotional tone for their teams. By consistently demonstrating empathy, you create a culture where understanding and emotional intelligence are valued. Take time to acknowledge the emotions of your team members, especially during stressful periods, and encourage others to do the same.

Modeling empathy encourages others to follow suit and create a supportive team environment.

Empathy in Difficult Situations

How can you use empathy when tensions escalate?

In high-stress moments, understanding differing viewpoints is crucial for resolution. Leaders who acknowledge the emotions driving the conflict can defuse tension and steer the conversation toward constructive solutions. Are you listening with empathy when conflicts arise, or simply reacting?

Empathy in challenging times fosters deeper connections and more effective teamwork.

Thank you for joining me this week. Feel free to forward this to anyone else who might benefit from it.

Here’s to leading with purpose and curiosity!

Cheers,

Del

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